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Tijani Joshua Abiodun (formally Teejay Josh) professionally known as Jay Plus, is a Nigeria R&B, Soul and Afrobeats singer, songwriter, musician, recording artiste, performer and creative entrepreneur. With his inspiring speeches, bestselling books, and skilled musical performances, he has inspired and motivated audiences around the world. Jay Plus is a passionate book lover and avid reader. They started their website, 'Global Bookshelf,' to share their love of books with the world. Through 'Global Bookshelf,' they hope to inspire others to pick up a book and start reading. When they're not reading or writing about books, Jay Plus enjoys spending time with their family and friends." Jay Plus's favorite genres include fantasy, sci-fi, and nonfiction. Their goal is to read 100 books in the next year." In addition to his professional accomplishments, Jay Plus is also a talent manager who helps aspiring artists reach their full potential. Jay Plus's story is one of perseverance and determination. He has overcome many challenges in his life, including poverty and homelessness, and he has used his experiences to motivate others to achieve their goals. His message of hope and positivity has resonated with audiences of all ages and backgrounds, and he is committed to helping others reach their full potential. He is the 𝑭𝒐𝒖𝒏𝒅𝒆𝒓 of 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑮𝒍𝒐𝒃𝒂𝒍 𝑩𝒐𝒐𝒌𝒔𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒇 (𝑻𝑮𝑩) and 𝑷𝒓𝒆𝒔𝒊𝒅𝒆𝒏𝒕 of 𝑮𝒍𝒐𝒃𝒂𝒍 𝑺𝒐𝒖𝒍 𝑹𝒆𝒄𝒐𝒓𝒅𝒔 (𝑮𝑺𝑹) house for 𝒑𝒓𝒐𝒅𝒖𝒄𝒊𝒏𝒈 young 𝒂𝒔𝒑𝒊𝒓𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒎𝒖𝒔𝒊𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒏𝒔 and 𝒊𝒏𝒔𝒑𝒊𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝒃𝒐𝒐𝒌𝒔. In addition to his work as a 𝒎𝒐𝒕𝒊𝒗𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒍 𝒔𝒑𝒆𝒂𝒌𝒆𝒓 and 𝒂𝒖𝒕𝒉𝒐𝒓, Jay Plus is also a 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒂𝒅𝒗𝒐𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒆 for 𝒔𝒐𝒄𝒊𝒂𝒍 𝒋𝒖𝒔𝒕𝒊𝒄𝒆. "Jay Plus is a 𝒕𝒂𝒍𝒆𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒅 and 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒐𝒏𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒊𝒏𝒅𝒊𝒗𝒊𝒅𝒖𝒂𝒍 with a background in both music and computer science. As a musician, Jay Plus is known for his 𝑹&𝑩, 𝑺𝒐𝒖𝒍, and 𝑨𝒇𝒓𝒐𝒃𝒆𝒂𝒕𝒔 𝒎𝒖𝒔𝒊𝒄, which has gained him a loyal following of fans. In addition to his musical talents, Jay Plus is also skilled in 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒑𝒖𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒔𝒄𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆, with a background in 𝒂𝒏𝒊𝒎𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏, 𝒈𝒓𝒂𝒑𝒉𝒊𝒄𝒔, and 𝒄𝒐𝒅𝒊𝒏𝒈. He has used his skills in 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒑𝒖𝒕𝒆𝒓 𝒔𝒄𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 to create innovative and engaging educational experiences, including animated lessons and interactive games. As a musician, Jay Plus has released several albums and singles, and has collaborated with other artists to create unique and inspiring music. His work has been recognized by critics and fans alike, and he has been praised for his unique sound and ability to connect with listeners. He is particularly well-known for his signature style of R&B and Soul music, which has earned him a loyal following of fans across the globe. In addition to his musical success, Jay Plus has also used his skills in computer science to create engaging and educational experiences, such as animated tutorials and interactive games. As an accomplished computer scientist, Jay Plus has worked with various programming languages and platforms, including Python, Java, and C++. He has used his skills to create innovative applications and software, and has even developed his own programs and applications. His work has been praised for its creativity and efficiency, and he is widely respected in the computer science community. As a computer scientist, Jay Plus has worked on several projects that have made a significant impact in the industry. One of his most notable achievements is the development of an animation program that has been used to create educational content for students around the world. He has also worked on projects related to game development, artificial intelligence, and machine learning. His work has been used in a variety of settings, including schools, universities, and even corporations. He has even been invited to speak at conferences and events to share his knowledge and expertise. It's clear that Jay Plus has had a significant impact on the music and computer science industries. He has received recognition and awards for his work, and his contributions have been highly valued by his peers and the community at large. Here's a list of the awards and achievements of Jay Plus. - 2018: Nominated for Best New Act artist of the year. - 2019: Nominated for Best Afrobeats artist of the year. - 2023: Won Best Male Artist of the Year. - 2023: Won Best Male Artist of the Year. - 2023: Won Best Sensational Artist of the Year. - 2023: Won Best Pop Artist of the Year.

Story behind Kizz Daniel Success.

Kizz Daniel

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Oluwatobiloba Daniel Anidugbe (born 1 May 1994), who is better known as Kizz Daniel (formerly Kiss Daniel),^[2] is a Nigerian singer and songwriter. He rose to fame in 2014 with his debut single, “Woju“.^[3] He signed a record deal with G-Worldwide Entertainment in 2013, but left the label following a publicized contract dispute and court case.^[4] He founded the Fly Boy Inc record label in November 2017.^[5]

Kizz Daniel Background information Birth name Oluwatobiloba Daniel Anidugbe Also known as Vado Born 1 May 1994 (age 29)^[1]
Abeokuta, Ogun State, NigeriaGenres

Occupation(s)

Singer
Songwriter
Entertainer

Years active2014—presentLabels

Fly Boy Inc
Empire Africa
Empire
G-Worldwide (former)

Early life and educationedit

Kizz Daniel was born as Oluwatobiloba Daniel Anidugbe in Abeokuta, Ogun State, Nigeria.^[9] He hails from Abeokuta North local government area. He attended Abeokuta Grammar School and graduated from Federal University of Agriculture, Abeokuta, in 2013, with a degree in Water Resources Management and Agrometeorology (Water Engineering).^[10] While in university, he decided to pursue music as a career alongside his studies.^[11]^[12]^[13]

On 8 August 2022, Kizz Daniel was arrested in Dar es Salaam by the Tanzanian police force over failure to perform.^[6]

On 3 February 2023, he was announced by Audiomack alongside Snazzy the Optimist, Asake and 1ucid as the top trending and most streamed artistes.^[7]^[8]

Careeredit

In May 2015, Kizz Daniel released a third follow up single, “Laye,” on his birthday, along with a video two weeks later which was shot in different locations in the eastern part of Africa and was directed by AJE FILMS.^[14] Daniel released his first studio album titled New Era on May 14, 2016.^[15]^[16]

After his exit from his former label G-WorldWide, he went to float his own personal imprint FLYBOY I.N.C. which recently signed two new acts Demmie Vee and Philkeyz. After which Kizz Daniel was featured on Demmie Vee single entitled “You Go Wait?”.^[17] 2018 was sure a good year for the WOJU crooner, he featured Wizkid on a Hit Song “FOR YOU”^[18] and Davido on another single “One Ticket” which hit the charts within 24hrs of its release. On the 30th of December 2018, Kizz Daniel released his 2nd Studio album and his first under FlyBoy Inc titled “No Bad Songz”. The album contained 20 Songs including the pre-released One Ticket which he featured Davido. Other features on the Album included Nasty C, Diamond Platiumz, Philkeyz, Demmie Vee, Dj Xclusive, Wretch 32, Diplo and Sarkodie. The album received positive reviews from music lovers, it debuted at No 55 on the US iTunes Chart and became number 1 on the world Album Chart within 24 hours of its release. On 25 June 2020, he released his third studio album ‘King of Love’^[19]

In 2017, many of his fans thought he would make a career switch to comedy as he was uploading comedy skits. However he said he has no intention of switching to comedy as music is his main talent.^[20]

For the 2022 FIFA World Cup, https://www.naijaloaded.com.ng/entertainment/kizz-daniel-delivers-a-spectacular-performance-at-2022-fifa-world-cup-qatar-photos/ Kizz Daniel performed] his hit single “Buga” at the 2022 FIFA World Cup in Qatar, he has expressed his desire to perform at the FIFA World Cup and shared an update on whether he would be appearing at the world’s biggest footballing event.^[21]^[22]

He acquired a new house and announced it in September 2022, According to his own statements, he always wanted a house on the water for his wife and children which he claims will soon be possible.

He recently released a new song called “Cough (Odo)” produced by Blaise Beatz,^[23] this is Kizz Daniel’s second official release of the year 2022.^[24]

Record label dispute and name changeedit

In November 2017, Kizz Daniel announced his split from his record label, G-Worldwide, and created his own label called FLYBOY I.N.C.^[25] He was sued to court by the former record label but was not found guilty for any of the crimes he was accused of.^[26]^[27]

In May 2018, Kizz Daniel announced that he had changed his stage name from Kiss Daniel to Kizz Daniel, a name that immediately reflected on his social media accounts. New Spotify and Apple Music accounts were also created immediately with the name Kizz Daniel, with his new songs featured.^[28]^[29]

In June 2018, Kizz Daniel’s former record label G-Worldwide made a move to own the rights to the name “Kizz Daniel” and further advised the singer to desist from using the name or face legal consequences in a press release sent out to media houses.^[30] In October 2018 Daniel responded to the suit and statement made by his former record label G-Worldwide through his own lawyer.^[31] In April 2022, Emperor Geezy and Daniel settled their disputes, outside the court in a viral video tagged #Peace&Love.^[32]

In February 2023, Kizz Daniel won the Song of the Year award at the Soundcity MVP Awards which were held at the Eko Convention Centre in Lagos with “Buga”.^[33]

On May 4, 2022, he released a chart-topping single titled “Buga”.^[34]^[35] The song became a hit with dance challenges on Instagram and TikTok with prominent people including the President of Liberia, George Weah dancing to it.^[36]^[37]

Shu Peruedit

Kizz Daniel releases a new mind-blowing song titled “Shu Peru” on 12 May 2023.^[38]

This captivating track is set to take the music world by storm with its infectious rhythm and irresistible vibes.

“Shu Peru” showcases Kizz Daniel’s incredible artistry and unique musical style that has endeared him to millions of fans worldwide. The song combines elements of Afrobeat, Afro-pop, and contemporary R&B, creating a dynamic and mesmerizing sound that is undeniably Kizz Daniel.

“Shu Peru” by Kizz Daniel is now available on all major streaming platforms. Fans can also watch the music video on Kizz Daniel’s official YouTube channel

^[39]

Personal lifeedit

On May 1, 2021, he welcomed a set of triplets, Jamal, Jalil, and Jelani, with his mysterious girlfriend. Kizz later revealed how he lost one of his triplets, Jamal, just four days after birth as he acquired a two-bedroom penthouse each for Jalil and Jelani.^[40]^[41]

Careeredit

He acquired a new house and announced it in September 2022, According to his own statements, he always wanted a house on the water for his wife and children which he claims will soon be possible.

He recently released a new song called “Cough (Odo)” produced by Blaise Beatz,^[23] this is Kizz Daniel’s second official release of the year 2022.^[24]

Record label dispute and name changeedit

In February 2023, Kizz Daniel won the Song of the Year award at the Soundcity MVP Awards which were held at the Eko Convention Centre in Lagos with “Buga”.^[33]

Bugaedit

Discographyedit

Studio albums and EPs

New Era (2016)
No Bad Songz (2018)^[42]
King of Love (2020)^[43]
Barnabas (2021)^[44]^[45]
Maverick (2023)

Awards and nominationsedit

YearEventPrizeResultRef2015The HeadiesNext RatedNominated^[46]Nigeria Entertainment AwardBest New Act to WatchWon^[47]City People EntertainmentMost Promising Act of the Year (Male)Nominated^[48]Popular Song of the YearNominated2016MTV Africa Music AwardListener’s ChoiceNominated^[49]Nigeria Entertainment AwardAfropop Artist of the YearWon^[50]Hottest Single of the YearWonCity People Music AwardMusic Artist of the Year (Male)Won^[51]Popular Song of the YearNominated^[52]The HeadiesBest R&B/Pop AlbumWon^[53]^[54]Hip Hop World Revelation of the YearWonBest Pop SingleNominatedAlbum of the YearWon2017The Future Awards AfricaNigeria Prize for MusicNominated^[55]Nigeria Entertainment AwardBest Album of the YearNominated2018The Headies Song of the YearNominated^[56]Best Pop SingleNominatedBest Ragge/Dancehall SingleNominatedViewer’s ChoiceNominated2023Soundcity MVP AwardsSong of the Year

What matters Most

15 Ways To Keep A Relationship Working

Love each other💘💝💘
Don’t lie🤔🤔
Keep communication open☺️😊
Stay sweet💋💞
When you get hurt just forgive and forget
Never talk about break-ups
Never say it’s okay even when It’s not🙊🌹🙊
Forget about “pride”👌🤙👌
If you say sorry mean it☺️😊
Don’t compare your past with your present
Don’t talk about your stupid ex’s💔
Give and take process🥀💍✨
Beware of his/her feelings💞💋💐💞
When you had a fight, don’t let the day pass😪😊😪
Don’t be the perfect one, be the right one🥰🤝

Always be romantic whenever you both are together sharing common joy.

Do You Know Why?

THINGS THAT KILL A WOMAN’S FEELINGS AND ATTRACTION FOR YOU.

Acting needy: Acting needy around a woman will make her lose interest and attraction for you. Neediness that makes you seek her approval. Oh baby you didn’t call me… 😂😂😂 Why will you say such a thing. Oh baby I have been sending you things, tell me you like it 😂😂😂. Oh baby am I good for you? 😂😂😂😂
Acting insecure: Why monitoring her calls. Why are you asking if she’s still talking with her ex.
Being pushy: You are forcing her to say I LOVE YOU. You’re always calling to know where she is and who’s with her.
You lack control over your emotions: You can start abusing her and insulting her if she’s not responding well.
You’re too available: You’re always at her beck and call. You just want fix her mood swings. You’re telling her things she didn’t ask you about yourself.
You want to use money to impress her.
You’re too clingy and touchy. Holx yourself! If she wants you to hold her, touch her and flirt with her she will give you signal. Lack of self control is bad.

Start your Day afresh with a New Beginning

Secrets of Success- 1

1. Sleep less. This is one of the best investments you can make to make your life more productive and rewarding. Most people do not need more than 6 hours to maintain an excellent state of health. Try getting up one hour earlier for 21 days and it will develop into a powerful habit. Remember, it is the quality not the quantity of sleep that is important. And just imagine having an extra 30 hours a month to spend on the things that are important to you.

2. Set aside one hour every morning for personal development matters. Meditate, visualize yourday, read inspirational texts to set the tone of your day, listen to motivational tapes or read greatliterature. Take this quiet period to vitalize and energize your spirit for the productive day ahead.Watch the sun rise once a week or be with nature. Starting the day off well is a powerful strategy for self-renewal and personal effectiveness.

3. Do not allow those things that matter the most in your life be at the mercy of activities thatmatter the least. Every day, take the time to ask yourself the question “is this the best use of mytime and energy?” Time management is life management so guard your time with great care.

4. Use the rubber band method to condition your mind to focus solely on the most positive elements in your life. Place a rubber band around your wrist. Each time a negative, energy sapping thought enters your mind, snap the rubber band. Through the power of conditioning, your mind will associate pain with negative thinking and you will soon possess a strongly positive mindset.

5. Always answer the phone with enthusiasm in your voice and show your appreciation for the caller. Good phone manners are essential. To convey authority on the line, stand up. This will instill further confidence in your voice.

6. Throughout the day we all get inspiration and excellent ideas. Keep a set of cards (the size of business cards; available at most stationary stores) in your wallet along with a pencil to jot down these insights. When you get home, put the ideas in a central place such as a coil notepad and review them from time to time. As noted by Oliver Wendell Holmes: “Man\’s mind, once stretched by a new idea, never regains its original dimensions.”

7. Set aside every Sunday evening for yourself and be strongly disciplined with this habit. Usethis period to plan your week, visualize your encounters and what you want to achieve, to readnew materials and inspirational books, to listen to soft soothing music and to simply relax. This habit will serve as your anchor to keep you focused, motivated and effective throughout the coming week.

8. Always remember the key principle that the quality of your life is the quality of your communication. This means the way you communicate with others and, more importantly, the way you communicate with yourself. What you focus on is what you get. If you look for the positive this is what you get. This is a fundamental law of Nature.

9. Stay on purpose, not on outcome. In other words, do the task because it is what you love todo or because it will help someone or is a valuable exercise. Don\’t do it for the money or the recognition. Those will come naturally. This is the way of the world.

10. Laugh for five minutes in the mirror each morning. Steve Martin does. Laughter activates many beneficial chemicals within the body that place us into a very joyous state. Laughter also returns the body to a state of balance. Laughter therapy has been regularly used to heal persons with varied ailments and is a wonderful tonic for life\’s ills. While the average 4 year old laughs 500 times a day, the average adult is lucky to laugh 15 times a day. Revitalize the habit of laughter, it will put far more living into your life.

New Beginning

May God give you the strength to overcome difficulties and the confidence to walk on the difficult road to success!

Learn To Take Risks

“Self-knowledge is the beginning of self-improvement.” Baltasar Gracian

Your life may be so boring and fade because… err, you made it like this? When was the last time you tried something really difficult? When was the last time you challenged the odds of doing something risky? Do it now. The ability to take risks is a fundamental ingredient of your life. We often associate the reward of a certain action with the risk involved. If there’s no risk, we usually don’t value the result either. We end up living a life without value. Taking risks is not easy. It’s not a game and it should not be treated like this. You can lose some things, but you can also win other things. Exercising your risking capacities is one of the most rewarding, yet consuming, I admit, ways of enriching your life. No risk it, no biscuit, they say, and they say that for a good reason.

Start Your Own Business

Be your own boss. Work your own hours. I know, it sounds so shallow, for you, who hate your job but still have to stay there because of that mortgage. Well, unless you make the first step, nothing is going to change. That’s for sure. When I started my own business, I did it mainly out of curiosity. Money wasn’t a key ingredient in my decision. I was making a decent living as an employee. But I was curious how a not so decent life would look like. A better life, that is. There are risks involved, that’s for sure. But the reward is fantastic. It’s not the freedom you get. It’s not the money, although it does count. It’s the ability to control the throughput of your generated value. You can give as much as you want. Starting your own business means giving more of what you can offer and receive more of what you can get.

Change Your Work Space

Clean up your desk. Re-arrange furniture. Add some color to that space. Make the place where you work really enjoyable. So enjoyable that work there won’t be perceived as work anymore. It will be something you love to do. I love to change my workspace every now and then. Because I consider that workspace to be a mirror of my thoughts. Imagine how would you feel if you would think the same thoughts day in and day out. They have a name for that: being crazy. Small changes in the workspace around you can have a huge impact on your life. Not only you can become more productive, so to speak, but you will feel that every day is unfolding in a different way. Changing your workspace around should give you the feeling that work is in fact just a disguised holiday. Until the real one starts, of course.

Learn A New Language

Challenge your mind. Constantly. If you’re going to do number 10, you’re going to learn some new languages too. From my experience, learning a new language is a fantastic mind opener. Sometimes you don’t even have to travel there. And if we’re talking about languages, remember that we do live in an information era. Everything is language. Try learning simple things related to this like HTML. Or, even simpler, try to learn the meaning of emoticons in a chat. Back to real languages, every time you describe reality in a new way, it will expand. So, every time you will name the same thing in different languages, you will actually re-create that thing. This is why I consider polyglots to be very rich people. Try describing the part in your life you want to grow in different languages. You’ll be surprised by the results.

Find Reasons To Agree

Rather than disagree. We have this mindset of competition which makes us constantly arguing over things. Well, stop that. You don’t have to force yourself into the agreement, if it’s not the case, just trying to find some reasons will be enough. There’s also another subtle implication of this approach: whenever you force yourself to see the resolution of a situation, rather than its potential conflict, you help the resolution manifest and throw away the conflict. It happens more often than you think. Changing your approach to conflictual the situation has great growth potential because we do live in a conflicted world. And the most constant friction in this world is the one between the old and new. Finding reasons to agree rather than disagree will feed harmony and starve worthlessly conflict.

Pay Yourself First

You can’t give something if you don’t have it. You can’t spread light onto others if you don’t have light from within. You can’t give wealth to others if you don’t have it for yourself first. Make yourself a service and pay yourself first. I’m all in for altruism but for real, sustainable altruism. I’m not buying into people who can’t take care of themselves but at the same time, they’re preaching giving as a religion. If you want to give something, you have to have it first. Paying yourself first is another way of saying that you have to make more than you need prior to giving to others. Depriving yourself for feeding others won’t solve the problem. Have more love, have more money, more happiness, then start giving away. Pay yourself first in order to have more for others. Then giving will just come in naturally.

Wake Up Early

This is not a habit, this is a lifestyle. Don’t just wake up early without a purpose. Be early. Be there before others. Look for opportunities and embrace them. Waking up early means keeping your eye open to every available opportunity. This is not a contest: who is waking up earlier than the other. This is a new perspective: being there before any other person will. Being first at your own business office before your employees. Creating a certain type of value before somebody else does it. Many people think that just by waking up early they’ll be better. That’s not true. Waking up early without a clear purpose will just clear some more time for procrastination. First, find out what you want to do with your life, then squeeze every second of your time doing it. Waking up early means in fact creating your day, instead of taking it for granted.

Train Your Focus

Your focus is in fact your reality. Use it wisely. Train it constantly for it will enhance your reality in ways you never imagined. Keep your focus sharp as a razor blade and be prepared to experience life in fantastic shapes and colors. Let’s make this little exercise: take your eyes out of the book and look at the wall in front of you. Now, which is part of your reality? The book, or your wall? You may think it’s the book, but it isn’t: since your focus changed, all you have in your reality now is the wall in front of you. It’s the same in all areas of your life. If you focus on your problems, even if you think you have their solution, you will just make them grow. It’s like looking at the wall while ignoring what you have in your hands. The problems will become more real than their solutions. Your focus is on creating your reality: whatever you focus on it will grow.

Start A Blog

On whatever topic you want. Not only it will give you the opportunity to create something new and valuable but it will also bring new people into your life. Blogging is far more than hype, is a personal development tool. A very good one. Many people think a blog is just an instrument for making money. To some extent, it is. But it is also much more than that. A blog will structure information and will allow you to express it in a different way and to a wider audience. In many ways, a blog can become your personal brand. And if you don’t know what a personal brand is, maybe it’s time to find out: a personal brand is an immaterial version of you, working for yourself even when you’re not there. And a blog can help you create that version of you faster than any other tool. Maybe you think your life is not good enough to blog about it. Well, you’ll never find out until you really try.

Write An Ebook

You may think you don’t have a talent, but that’s completely wrong. And the easiest way to prove it wrong is to start writing an ebook. Any ebook. You pick the topic. It might be something you know or want to learn about. Write it. It’s fun. An ebook is something different than a blog. It’s like a story on something you really know. Maybe your only talent is cooking. By all means, write a book about cooking. There are also 1 other million books on cooking? So what? There is no end to human creativity and your presence on this earth is the biggest proof. You’re unique, You’re special. Even if you think you don’t have anything to offer, you have. Just think of the one thing you know to do best and start writing about it, The rest will follow. An ebook is a very easy way to let other people know you exist and have something to offer. Something as unique as you.

SEX AND FEELINGS

SEX AND FEELINGS

A man can have sex with a lady and still don’t have any feelings for her, most men only need space to have sex but majority of women need reason to have sex.
90% of woman cannot have sex without feelings, A man can travel for eight hours from Nigeria to Lesotho just to have sex with a female and yet, not love her or even have any feelings for her.
Sex makes men act as if they are in love while they are not!! What they feel is lust, what they feel is what they see which is curves and a huge behind, go through a lady’s silky skin thigh for a 5 minutes or less, ejaculate and forget.

The eight hours travel sacrifice, gifts bought, hotel paid for and other expenses may seem to be coming from true love but they were all in the sacrifice for sex and nothing more.
The foolish thing is this, the majority of women would jump up inside them and conclude that this is the art of true love. So many woman are bought and blinded by materialistic things, yet miss the small little gestures that money cannot buy.

Sex is not an act of commitment. So many Men and women still leave their partners on their beds and start thinking of the next woman or man to sleep with. The satisfaction that comes from sex dies in minutes.
It is in the nature of Lions to go miles to hunt. The same with men. A man who can afford the expenses of flying from the UK to Nigeria for sex would do it as if he would never turn to another woman for sex.

Sex drives men to do what seems like the impossible and such turns women around and they start acting weird. Sex and love are not on the same page even in the dictionary.
People can abandon their gold mines and dig the grave for sex. Most young men do terrible things just to have the resources to keep many girls in their life.

You may think they are working hard to live well in the future but they are just living for fun and that is all. Students are now living together like husbands and wives, and our society calls it love

Relationship tips for Men

Date this girl.

Date the girl you who makes you smile everytime she walks into the room.

Date the girl who wants to slow dance with you in the kitchen to a song written by George Strait.

Date the girl who motivates you to do better in all aspects of your life.

Date the girl that would rather cuddle with you on the couch in her pajamas while binge watching her favorite show on Netflix, than go out and get drunk at a party.

Date the girl who’s excited to tell you about her day at work.

Date the girl who’s laugh stops and warms up your heart when you have a bad day.

Date the girl who wants to lay a blanket on the ground and watch the stars with you on a cool summer night.

Date the girl with an old soul ….. that has morals and qualities that are extremely hard to find in this generation.

Date the girl who understands that children need to raised in a home where love is more important than money.

Date the girl who wants you to text her as soon as you arrive to your destination so she knows you made it there safely.

And date the girl who prays every single night for you coming into her life so calmy and unexpectedly.

Take my advice and date the girl who makes you feel so loved when you’re in her presence, it feels like you’re finally home.
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Class dismissed 🥂

Make Your Work Exciting

The Secret of Success “Make Your Work Exciting.”

If you really want to succeed in life, you cannot do that with a job that’s boring. Therefore, either you must do what you love or you must love what you do. This means that if you’re not doing an exciting
job, better change it! If you can’t change it, you better make that job exciting.

The reason why successful people succeed is that they enjoy what they do. They do not just enjoy their job, they find it exciting! They look forward to waking up in the morning, jumping out of the bed and going to work because they just love it! They are so happy and excited about what they do, but if that’s not the case with you, then there is no way that you can succeed.

The Secret of Success “Make Your Work Exciting”, therefore, implies that you need to find a job that’s exciting or you need to make the current one exciting. You must have excitement at work. To me, I always do something exciting. I have always chosen things that have excited me, and without doubt, I have always been successful in what I have done.

Matrimonial Lessons

KEEP YOUR HUSBAND . EVERY WOMAN SHOULD READ…

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.

2). Don’t expose your husband’s weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other’s keeper.

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don’t have a happy home.

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you’ve no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband’s friends because you don’t like them, the person who’s supposed to get rid of them is your husband.

6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.

8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband’s sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over your duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long(even the anointed ones)

11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don’t do that.

14). Don’t forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

Facts about People

NOBODY IS YOUR ENEMY

ANYONE THAT ANNOYS YOU –is teaching you patience and calmness.

ANYONE THAT ABANDONS YOU –is teaching you how to stand up on your own feet.

ANYBODY THAT OFFENDS YOU –is teaching you forgiveness and compassion.

ANYTHING THAT YOU HATE –is teaching you, unconditional love.

ANYTHING THAT YOU FEAR –is teaching you the courage to overcome your fears.

ANYTHING YOU CAN’T CONTROL –is teaching you to let go.

ANY “NO” YOU GET FROM HUMAN –is teaching you to be independent.

ANY PROBLEM YOU’RE FACING –is teaching you how to get a solution to problems.

ANY ATTACK YOU GET FROM PEOPLE –is teaching you the best form of defence.

ANYONE WHO LOOKS DOWN ON YOU –is teaching you to look up to CREATOR ( GOD ).

Always look out for the lesson in every situation you face in every phase of life.
Be polite, calm, gentle and thankful to God because He will be with you to the end.
Life had taught me lessons. I do not see people at my cross road, because humans are not reliable. I only see God as the author and finisher of my faith.

R E F L E C T I O N S
When you live your life without anyone betraying, hurting, disappointing, disgracing or offending you, then it means you never did anything worthy.

The beauty of life, is that it comes with disappointments and betrayals, from people you least expect.

Unfortunately, some of us spend so much time crying over these betrayals and disappointments, and end up becoming victims of all circumstances.

Remember One Thing: Holding unto anger is like knocking your head on the wall and expecting the other person to feel the pain. You are only hurting yourself.

The fact is that the world is full of annoying, naughty, stupid and ungrateful people, and you will always come across them at one point or another in life. But the best thing to do, is to deal with them with wisdom and maturity.

You can’t get everyone to love you, think like you or behave like you… never.

We must learn to tolerate and overlook certain things, we must try to bury the faults of others and move on with life.

Anger, Hatred and Intolerance have caused most of the world’s problems and solved none.

Life is short, you don’t know how much time you have left

I beseech you to take the pain and forgive that special person you hold grudges against, and iron out your grievances.

Muster the courage and apologise to that person you have offended.

Life is not measured by the amount of money, houses or companies you have, but by the positive impact you have made in the lives of others.